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Goals Update January 2017

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In November, I posted about how Andy and I had decided to split the responsibilities for our goals. The idea is that by splitting who was solely responsible for our success in each of two areas, we’d increase our accountability. Each month I’ll be checking in with an update until we reach or change our goals! Here is last month’s update. Let’s see how we did this past month.   The Goals We have two major goals. Of course, there are other goals besides these two but we’re focusing in on two since there are two of us. Once we get these under control we can expand onto the others. Each of us is in charge of a different thing. … More…

Inexpensive Valentine’s Day Gifts for your Spouse

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Valentine’s Day can be a difficult time for a husband and wife. You’ve just spent a lot on everyone you know for Christmas presents. At the start of the New Year, your finances were on the list of goals for this year. Now, here comes Valentine’s Day, demanding you spend money on each other in the form of Valentine’s Day gifts. It’s really, really easy after years of being in a relationship to have a rational, logical conversation that goes something like this: Husband: Hey so, we’re supposed to not be spending too much this year. Wife: Yeah, I know. Husband: So what do you want to do about Valentine’s Day? Should we go out to dinner? How much do you want to spend on gifts? … More…

Goals Update December 2016

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Last month, I posted about how Andy and I had decided to split the responsibilities for our goals. The idea is that by splitting who was soley responsible for our success in each of two areas, we’d increase our accountability. Each month I’ll be checking in with an update until we reach or change our goals! Let’s see how we did this past month.   The Goals We have two major goals. Of course, there are other goals besides these two but we’re focusing in on two since there are two of us. Once we get these under control we can expand onto the others. Each of us is in charge of a different thing. I’m responsible for the healthy … More…

How to Increase Accountability on Goals with your Spouse

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Like most people, we sometimes struggle with overspending or overeating (or eating the wrong things). So earlier this year we made a plan to combat those problems. Unfortunately, we didn’t “plan” our plan very well. We set goals and decided on ways to monitor them, but that was about it. We left the actual monitoring on autopilot. I expected him to keep me accountable and he expected the same of me. It didn’t quite work out that way and our progress toward our goals was stagnant. After some trial and error, we decided to try another way to increase accountability for our goals.   The problems we are trying to solve are in an effort to live better. We’re not … More…